2nd time blogging from my work place. It's NOT an office! I'm blogging with a singer singing, and like 4 tables of people drinking and playing games in front of me. Yes, I'm bored.
Just some thoughts la.. being ignorant is indeed a bliss. As much as I'm super open to almost everything, I quote a super close friend.. "i don't believe, but I accept." These will probably not make sense to anyone except the person whom I quoted. Another quote from my favourite forum, In this age, most people accept it that their wife-to-be/fiance are non-virgins. It's too common, but it says a lot about the girl if she's a virgin at marriage. Some people, when at the peak of their love, say that it's ok, and he/she understands that it's common now, but in an over-heated argument late into the marriage, this is a time bomb waiting to explode. It's like religion. Say both respect each other's religion or non-religion such as perhaps a free thinker and a Christian. But the problem comes when it's time to decide whether to bring the kid to church from young, or to just let nature flow.
For myself, I am a strong believer of a "white lie". Although I guess if a couple is going to get married, there are lots of things that need not be said. Taboo stuff.. Self delusion. Blocking or "negative" thoughts and just assume things you want to believe in. With all I said, I do believe that aside those "taboo" things by the general Singaporean, everything else should be clear. Things like saying that your place, address, meeting your friends.. are very important. It's a fact that the more one digs, the more one finds, and if you're hiding something, you can't hide it in front of soooo many people.
No idea why I'm posting this, but just that some people lead a double life. Or rather, just a small 5% and a 95%. The small 5% is with that someone who you look for company. You don't talk about your personal life, your family, your friends.. just general things. And it's like, in a crude way, friends with benefits. Of course, the danger for most people comes in when they cannot differentiate between the 2 lives, and they start to mash up.
I've a friend, met not too long ago, that keeps on going out with this guy. My friend's a she btw. None of her friends know this guy, she nv talks about him, and he's just anonymous except that he's from a rich family, and drives a Type R. Someone who dines with her, and yea, have fun together. Sounds like a typical playboy yea. Not that she's someone super decent too though, having had sugar dads and flings. I suppose ex-es dun really matter in this case. Once there's a first time, there will be many. Once you meet someone as a friend, this person grows and become friend, good friends, vv good friends etc. To turn it sexual is just weird. But, on the other hand, for friends who started off as sexual, can they go to the other ladder? I guess if it goes, the problem of the 2 lives being mash up comes in. It's similar to the relationship/friendship ladder mentioned all over the Internet some time back.
To spend $150 on a few seconds pleasure with a prostitute, or to spend $150 on an atas meal? I'm to choose the meal definitely. But, is it too much to ask for both. Haha.. Oh wells, for a person with enough money to spare, it doesn't matter isnt it.
Feb to June, 4 months. Ending soon. Reality. Have I gotten over? I'm not sure myself. In a way, unless someone gives me a shove.
Just some thoughts la.. being ignorant is indeed a bliss. As much as I'm super open to almost everything, I quote a super close friend.. "i don't believe, but I accept." These will probably not make sense to anyone except the person whom I quoted. Another quote from my favourite forum, In this age, most people accept it that their wife-to-be/fiance are non-virgins. It's too common, but it says a lot about the girl if she's a virgin at marriage. Some people, when at the peak of their love, say that it's ok, and he/she understands that it's common now, but in an over-heated argument late into the marriage, this is a time bomb waiting to explode. It's like religion. Say both respect each other's religion or non-religion such as perhaps a free thinker and a Christian. But the problem comes when it's time to decide whether to bring the kid to church from young, or to just let nature flow.
For myself, I am a strong believer of a "white lie". Although I guess if a couple is going to get married, there are lots of things that need not be said. Taboo stuff.. Self delusion. Blocking or "negative" thoughts and just assume things you want to believe in. With all I said, I do believe that aside those "taboo" things by the general Singaporean, everything else should be clear. Things like saying that your place, address, meeting your friends.. are very important. It's a fact that the more one digs, the more one finds, and if you're hiding something, you can't hide it in front of soooo many people.
No idea why I'm posting this, but just that some people lead a double life. Or rather, just a small 5% and a 95%. The small 5% is with that someone who you look for company. You don't talk about your personal life, your family, your friends.. just general things. And it's like, in a crude way, friends with benefits. Of course, the danger for most people comes in when they cannot differentiate between the 2 lives, and they start to mash up.
I've a friend, met not too long ago, that keeps on going out with this guy. My friend's a she btw. None of her friends know this guy, she nv talks about him, and he's just anonymous except that he's from a rich family, and drives a Type R. Someone who dines with her, and yea, have fun together. Sounds like a typical playboy yea. Not that she's someone super decent too though, having had sugar dads and flings. I suppose ex-es dun really matter in this case. Once there's a first time, there will be many. Once you meet someone as a friend, this person grows and become friend, good friends, vv good friends etc. To turn it sexual is just weird. But, on the other hand, for friends who started off as sexual, can they go to the other ladder? I guess if it goes, the problem of the 2 lives being mash up comes in. It's similar to the relationship/friendship ladder mentioned all over the Internet some time back.
To spend $150 on a few seconds pleasure with a prostitute, or to spend $150 on an atas meal? I'm to choose the meal definitely. But, is it too much to ask for both. Haha.. Oh wells, for a person with enough money to spare, it doesn't matter isnt it.
Feb to June, 4 months. Ending soon. Reality. Have I gotten over? I'm not sure myself. In a way, unless someone gives me a shove.
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